Divorcing couples in San Jose opt for mediation instead of a long drawn out court or attorney to attorney battle

Mediation is on the rise and for good reason. Many couples logically see that getting attorneys involved in their Divorce can be a costly battle, both emotionally and financially. A court battle could easily reduce or eliminate the resources and assets acquired through the years of marriage. A better choice perhaps is mediation whereas both parties agree to work with a mediator and in turn agree to how their assets get divided on their own as opposed to a judge deciding this for them, although a judge still signs off in the end (rarely an issue). There are also financial planners, whose expertise is in divorce, specifically helping couples who choose mediation.

Why more stars should consider mediation

It seems logical to me that more stars would or should chose mediation, if for no other reason, for the privacy factor. Meditation dealings are typically very private and confidential whereas attorney to attorney divorces are almost always media driven. In addition the mediation process is typically a very fast and efficient process which helps things get resolved quickly without as much attention being focused.

Who we know

Priority One Legal Document Services is a legal document service with a good network of mediators as well as financial planners to help their clients use any and all resources available to them in order to make the divorce without an attorney process as easy as possible. Since we cannot give legal advice we can only offer these resources to our clients when they ask or when we see that they need more direction or advice that we cannot legally provide to them. We also have attorneys that we associate with that we are also happy to connect our clients with should they need legal advice.

Free consultations

If you or someone you know is interested in learning more about divorcing without an attorney in San Jose CA or Northern CA, then contact us for a free consultation. We would be happy to share any resources we have available within our network as well as help you prepare and file your family law or divorce paperwork. We have weekend and evening appointments available as well as affordable payment plans and we have over twenty five years of solid experience. This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or 408.885.9795

Tis the season for family law support in San Jose

Well it’s almost the end of the year and for many people time to wrap up lose ends before the New Year begins.  The end of the year wrap up is not just about New Years resolutions but also about taking care of business that allows us to move forward in the New Year and for some people that includes filing for Divorce, Separation or other family law matters that have waited until now.

Why put off today what you can surely do tomorrow

A lot of our clients tell us that they have been putting off filing for Divorce all year long because they were too busy or just did not want to deal with filling out and filing Divorce paperwork because it was so time consuming or they did not know how to go about getting started.  On the other hand some of our clients began the process of filing for Divorce in San Jose and then ran into some obstacles when they actually tried to prepare and file the paperwork on their own.  Issues ran from not knowing which forms to fill out, to having their paperwork rejected by the courts, or just being too busy to actually dot all the I’s and cross all the T’s so they just let it sit around on the kitchen table perhaps in hopes that the elves would finish up the paperwork for them.

Fresh start and New Years Resolutions

Priority One Legal Document Services has been helping San Jose and Northern California families with their family law and Divorce paperwork for over twenty years now.  We specialize in family law document preparation and are recognized as one of the top Legal Document Services in the country.  If you want to get a fresh start in 2012 and have been putting off filing your family law or divorce paperwork for any reason, maybe we can help get you off to a fresh start in 2012.  Our Legal Document Assistants are available to answer any questions you might have and are also available to meet with you one on one to discuss your case.  And while we are not attorneys and cannot give legal advice, we do associate with some very well known attorneys who are always available to provide our clients with the necessary legal advice, should the need arise.  Our goal is to work with our clients, at their level, to provide just the right amount of support to save them money, time and stress.

Contact us today for your free consultation and let’s make 2012 a great New Year!
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Wishing all the families in Northern California, San Jose and the entire USA and beyond, Happy Holidays and a Happy New Year from The Priority One Legal Document Services Team!

The Governators’ divorce paperwork will “be back” or at least has to go back!

Arnold Schwarzenegger discovered a big error on his divorce documentation recently…..the paperwork denied his ex, Maria Shriver, of spousal support and denied paying for any of her legal fees, an error Arnold says (according to the New York Daily News) was made when he failed to read the paperwork thoroughly. As a result Arnold had to re-file the divorce paperwork. Apparently the mistake was made when his attorney checked the wrong boxes on the forms, something we see all the time!

It doesn’t matter how rich or famous you are, it could happen to you

It is only with such high profile cases as this that we can bring to the attention of potential clients just how crucial it is for all of the boxes to be checked correctly and all of the proper information be filled out correctly in order to avoid having to pay for changes or re-file. Even a simple error can hold up the divorce process and end up costing clients more in fees. This is why having a professional service prepare your divorce or family law paperwork is so critical.

Find a service you can trust

In San Jose and Northern California, Priority One Legal Document Services has been preparing and filing divorce paperwork for over twenty years. We have been in the same location for over ten years, have a professional staff to answer client questions Monday Through Friday from 8am to 6pm, and we are available on weekends and after hours on an as needed basis. The clients who use our service appreciate the level of service they receive from our staff and feel comfortable that their paperwork will be handled correctly the first time, in a very timely manner. Most of our clients come from referrals which as everyone knows speaks volumes for a service organization. I was once told that a compliment is something that is bestowed on us, not something that we can solicit and I am happy to say that our referrals are the biggest compliment of all!

If you or someone that you know is interested in speaking with us about your divorce or family law document preparation, you can contact us for a free consultation at 408.885.9795 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .

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Paralegal verses Legal Document Assistant (LDA)

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Pay now or pay more later……

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“Undivorcing”, is it a growing trend?

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An Affordable Alternative

Our clients come to us for a myriad of reasons, one being the fact that we are an affordable divorce solution. However we have heard from many of our clients that had they not taken the time to do their research, they would have never stumbled upon us. I think a lot of people think they have to use an attorney to get divorced but that is no longer the case.

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